“Nature is never static. It is always changing. Everything is in a constant state of flux. Nothing endures. Everything is in the process of either coming into being or expiring.” ― Kilroy J. Oldster — “Nature is never static. It is always changing. Everything is in a constant state of flux. Nothing endures. Everything is in the process of either coming into being or expiring.”
― **Kilroy J. Oldster**

As this year draws to a close, it provides an opportunity for reflection on where we have been on our journeys through life and where we would like to go from this point forward.

Within these quiet moments of reflection, we learn that every season of life holds its own magic, its own heartache, and its own joy. Just like the natural world around us, each season of life offers change, beauty, death, and rebirth. As the wheel of life spins around and around, it moves us into new seasons—even as we do our best to resist—ultimately forcing us to grow, adapt, and accept the realities associated with change. The good news is that each of these seasons brings us gifts, lessons, and experiences that we can carry forward into the future to transform ourselves into better parents, employees, leaders, friends, siblings, or mentors.

When we step away from the busyness of life to think, we realize we are all explorers on a quest for answers as long as we remain here. In Little Gidding, a poem by T. S. Eliot, he teaches us that “We shall not cease from exploration, and the end of all our exploring will be to arrive where we started, and know the place for the first time.” When viewing ourselves as explorers, we invite ourselves to stop resisting and instead ride the waves of change throughout each season of life while expressing gratitude for the past and the wisdom we have gained from both our failures and successes.

No season is easy. Each holds its unique challenges and joys. During one season, we may grieve the loss of someone we loved more than we ever imagined possible. During an alternative season, we may find our soul mate and begin a new life together. Within another season, we may land a dream job that propels us onto a new and exciting career path or pack up our belongings and start again in a different city or country. Another season may bring the gift of a new addition to the family, a dream vacation, or the opportunity to give back or pay it forward. No matter what experiences accompany each season, we will learn, love, and find a way to press on.

Every season in the cycle of life provides us with the chance to follow our hearts, align our goals with our purpose, and rediscover who we really are deep inside (not who others want us to be). As the leaves drop off the trees and the geese fly south, snow covers the ground, the birds begin singing again, and beautiful flowers dot the landscape, we all transform as we endure heartache, laugh heartily, love fiercely, bravely overcome our fears, and take plunges into the unknown.

As this holiday season draws to a close, I hope that you will embrace this time and practice gratitude for the gifts, blessings, and wisdom you will now take with you as you move forward into the next season.

Be well, be happy, and most importantly, be you.

Vicky DeCoster is a Certified Life Coach based in Omaha, Nebraska, who specializes in helping her clients both locally and nationwide to move past obstacles, create a plan for happiness, and cross the bridge of transition to find a new and fulfilling direction in life. To read more about her and her practice, visit her at crossthebridgecoaching.com.

The itch to play Santa is in Dave Greulich’s blood. His chef father played Santa, visiting three families every Christmas for thirty years. Still, Dave didn’t have an interest in transforming into Santa as he began a diverse career that included working as a restaurant consultant, running a BBQ restaurant, and working in Racing Chemistry (testing greyhounds and horses that raced at pari-mutuel tracks) at Iowa State University. But sixteen years ago when Dave was in his early fifties, after a family member suggested that he put his home-grown beard to good use, Dave decided to apply for a Santa job at the local mall. On his first day, Dave didn’t make it from the parking lot to inside the mall before he heard a tiny voice crying, “Santa! Santa!” After turning around, he noticed a girl break away from her father. As he got down on one knee and opened his arms, she ran full speed toward him and melted into his arms. Dave says he knew right then that he would be playing Santa for as long as he was able. “That feeling was unlike anything I can accurately explain,” he adds.

After attending Santa School, Dave first worked in the local mall, and then traveled to Torrance, California, Omaha, Nebraska, Orlando, Florida, and then Redmond, Washington, before finally settling into the title he now holds as Santa Ames. Dave says the best piece of advice he received when he decided to play Santa is that he must believe in himself. “Every Santa knows not to get too wrapped up in themselves or the character,” he states. “After all, I am not Santa. I am a helper; a Santa performer.”

There are many qualities that make up a good Santa. “He must love children and enjoy talking and listening to them,” Dave adds. “He must be real, kind and gentle, humble, smart, and quick with answers.” The children that sit on his lap often bring both amusing and heartbreaking stories with them. One little girl wanted a real Harry Potter wand so she secretly could turn her mother into a pig. Another girl asked for make-up for Christmas. When Dave asked her why, she stated that everyone had told her she was ugly and that she felt make-up would make her more beautiful. Dave said that after he buoyed her spirits and told her she was naturally beautiful, she hugged him tightly and skipped away. It is experiences like that one that remind Dave every day that both children and adults look up to him and that it’s important not to betray that trust.

Dave says that Santa imparts many valuable lessons to all ages that include, “Be kind to one another, don’t take things so seriously, it’s better to give than to receive, and it takes so little to make a difference.” No one is too old to visit Santa. Many times, college students stop by and tell Dave it’s a tradition that they have a photo taken with Santa and give it as a gift to their mother. Another time, a couple—ages 102 and 96—brought a group of at least twenty-five family members to witness their visit with him.

Every holiday season, Dave decorates his yard with lights and at least fifteen inflatables, a sleigh, and eight tiny reindeer. A few nights each season, Dave sits in the sleigh and invites everyone to his yard to have their photo taken with him. In return, he asks for a donation for the local food bank. Last year, he donated nearly one thousand pounds of food and several hundred dollars.

This time of year, Santa is very busy. In October, he begins contacting clients in the Des Moines/Ames, Iowa, area, ensures his background checks are completed, his liability insurance is renewed, his suits are clean, and that he has a fresh supply of candy canes on hand. When he is not preparing for a chaotic holiday season, Dave cares for his beloved wife who has ALS.

He advises anyone who wants to pursue their passion in life to “Go for it. Don’t be afraid of setbacks or to ask for advice, help, or for a mentor. Remember, you don’t know everything. No matter how much you have learned over the years or how many years you have done it, there is always someone who knows more and can help you somehow.”

Charles W. Howard once said, “Santa Claus does not enter through the chimney. He enters through the heart.” Every Christmas when Dave dons his red suit, black belt, and boots and gives a hearty “Ho! Ho! Ho!” to girls and boys of all ages, he does just that, helping all of us believe in the miracle of giving.

To book Santa for a future event, visit http://santaames.com/.

What Are You Doing to Embrace the Seasons of Life?

Living His Passion – Dave Greulich (also known as Santa)